Your music is a special part of your day

How do you pick just a handful of songs for your special day? Instead of getting overwhelmed by choice, one of the first things to do is decide on the genre and as this can reflect the tone of your wedding, maybe you have selected it already.

If you are planning on a really elegant day, classical music may be your obvious choice. Perhaps you want to add a more quirky vibe so jazz may suit you, or some bohemian romance. If you are planning that the party starts as soon as the guests take their seats, then check out my repertoire of acoustic rock.

The most important thing to remember is there is no rulebook so if you decide to mix and match, that can add a fun vibe too. I have extensive knowledge in all types of genres and am happy to work with you in developing a set list that feels just right for you as a couple on your special day.

 

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SACRED CEREMONY

A Mhuire Mhathair

Alleulia Alleuia

Ag Críost an Síol

As I Kneel Before You

Amazing Grace

As I Kneel Before You

Be Not Afraid

Be Still My Soul

Cead Mile Failte Romhat

Dona Nobis Pacem

Clouds Veil

Hail Queen of Heaven

Here I Am Lord

Hiding Place/ Mo Ghra Thu

I Watch the Sunrise

I Will Follow Him

Let There Be Peace

Make Me A Channel of Your Peace

On Eagles Wings

Peace is Flowing Like a River

Peace Perfect Peace

Thank You My Lord

The Prayer

Se an Tiarna M’Aoire

Seinn Alleuia

Set Your Heart on Higher Gifts

You Are Mine

 

MODERN LOVE

All of Me – John Legend

A Thousand Years – Christina PerrI

Greatest Day – Take That

Halo – Beyonce

How Long Will I Love You? – Ellie Goulding

I’m Yours – Jason Mraz

Just The Way You Are – Bruno Mars

Marry You – Bruno Mars

Somewhere Only We Know – Lily Allen

Perfect – Ed Sheeran

Take My Hand – Picture This

Thinking Out Loud – Ed Sheeran

Yellow – Coldplay

 

BOHEMIAN ROMANCE

Better Together – Jack Johnson

Cosmic Love -Florence and the Machine

Higher Love – James Vincent Mc Morrow

Home – Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros

One Day Like This -Elbow

Only Love – Ben Howard

Sea of Love – Cat Power

Skinny Love – Bon Iver

You Are The Best Thing – Ray La Montagne

You Got The Love – Florence & the Machine

 

ACOUSTIC ROCK

All I Want – U2

At My Most Beautiful -REM

Chasing Cars – Snow Patrol

Dakota -Stereophonics

Everlong – Foo Fighters (Acoustic Version)

Just Breathe – Pearl Jam

Sweet Child O Mine – Cover by Jasmine Thompson

Times Like These – Foo Fighters (Acoustic Version)

You & Me – Dave Matthews Band

Without You – Eddie Vedder

 

TIMELESS CLASSICS

All you Need is Love -The Beatles

At Last – Etta James

Can’t Help Falling in Love With You – Elvis Presley

Here There and Everywhere – The Beatles

In My Life – The Beatles

La Vie En Rose – Edith Piaf

Lean On Me – Michael Bolton

Let It Be- The Beatles

Love Me Tender- Norah Jones cover

Make You Feel My Love – Bob Dylan

My Girl – The Temptations

The Very Thought of You – Billy Holiday

Somewhere Over The Rainbow- Eva Cassidy/Various

Stand by Me- Ben.E King

Your Song – Elton John

SLOW ROMANCE

Close to you – The Carpenters

Come Away With Me – Norah Jones

Feels Like Home – Randy Newman

Have I Told You Lately That I Love You-Van Morrison

Kissing You – Des’ree

Landslide – Fleetwood Mac

Lets Stay Together- Al Green

More Than Words -Extreme

Someone Like You – Van Morrison

The Book Of Love – Peter Gabriel

The Rose – Bette Midlet

You Are So Beautiful – Joe Cocker

 

TRADITIONAL & FOLK

Bridge Over Troubled Water – Simon and Garfunkal

Bright Blue Rose – Mary Black

Caledonia – Dolores Keane

Down by the River to Pray

Fields of Gold – Eva Cassidy/ Sting

I Know You By Heart – Eva Cassidy

She Moved Through The Fair

Songbird- Eva Cassidy

The Golden Mile – Mary Black

The Voyage- Christy Moore

 

UPBEAT FUN

Everlasting Love- Love Affair

Every Little Thing She Does is Magic – The Police

God Only Knows – The Beach Boys

Ho Hey – The Lumineers

It Must Be Love-Madness

Isn’t She Lovely -Stevie Wonder

Lovely Day – Bill Withers

Higher & Higher -Jackie Wilson

Once in my Life – Stevie Wonder

Put A Little Love in Your Heart – Annie Lennox

Signed Sealed Delivered- Stevie Wonder

This Will Be (an Everlasting Love) – Natalie Cole

 

CLASSICAL

Ave Maria

Lascia Ch’io Pianga

Nella Fantasia

Panis Angelicus

Pie Jesu

Voice of An Angel

 

PIANO INSTRUMENTALS

A Thousand Years- Christina Perri

All of Me – John Legend

Here Comes the Sun-The Beatles

Here There and Everywhere-The Beatles

I Giorni- Ludavico Einudi

Moon River

Pachelbel’s Canon

River Flows in You – Yiruma

Home – Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeroes

Si Bheag Si Mhor

Tabhair Dom Do Lamh

Yesterday – The Beatles

There is no rulebook when it comes to selecting your wedding sound. However, there are certain songs that work well at different times during your ceremony. Here is a snapshot of suggestions and my full repertoire can be found at the end of the page.

Just a little word on the practical elements of your song selection. It’s really important that your celebrant approves your songs choices well in advance, some dioceses are stricter than others and last minute panics aren’t our style.

Also please make sure the church is available one hour before the ceremony so our gear is set up and the sound check is done.

ENTRANCE PROCESSION

One of the most memorable moments of your wedding, the entrance procession, is the perfect time to hear a personal favourite. You can opt for either a contemporary, a beautiful religious tune or even an instrumental.

*Suggestions*

At Last – Etta James
La Vie en Rose – Edith Piaf
I Can’t Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley/Ingrid Michelson cover
Landslide – Fleetwood Mac
Someone Like You – Van Morrison
Yellow -Coldplay
Higher Love – James Vincent Mc Morrow
All I Want – U2
I Know You By Heart – Eva Cassidy
The Prayer

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LIGHTING OF THE CANDLES
Lighting the candles is a symbolic moment in your wedding, but it doesn’t take long (usually less than a minute) so an instrumental can work very well here.

*Suggestions*

I Giorni
Here Comes the Sun
The River Flows in You
A Thousand Years
Pachelbel’s Canon
Si Bheag Si Mhor
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RESPONSORIAL PSALM

The Responsorial Psalm occurs between the first and second reading. This can either be sung or spoken by your celebrant.

*Suggestions*

On Eagles Wings
Hiding Place
Amazing Grace
Here I Am Lord
Be Not Afraid
Set Your Heart on Higher Gifts

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ALLELUIA/ GOSPEL ACCLAMATION

The Gospel Acclamation occurs after the second reading and consists of a short sung musical passage.

*Suggestions*

Seinn Alleuia
Alleulia Alleuia

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LIGHTING OF THE MARRIAGE CANDLE

Congratulations, vows are exchanged and you are now a married couple. It is lovely to have the same piece of music which was used during the first candle lighting ceremony. However, having two different songs also works great if that is more your style.

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OFFERTORY

Gifts will be brought to the alter by your chosen friends and family. A short hymn can be lovely in this section of the mass.

*Suggestions*

Mo Ghra Thu
The Prayer
Ave Maria
Nella Fantasia
Ag Criost an Siol
You Are Mine

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SIGN OF PEACE

The sign of peace is extra special during a wedding mass as your family and closest friends greet you as a married couple. A full song or instrumental works well here. However, some couples choose not to have any music.

*Suggestions*

Peace Perfect Peace
Tabhair Dom Do Lamh (Instrumental)
Fields of Gold – Eva Cassidy
All You Need is Love – The Beatles
In My Life – The Beatles

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COMMUNION

Communion is a very spiritual part of the mass. If you have quite a big wedding, it is also an opportunity to have a moment together as everybody else goes up for communion so these are very special songs to choose. Depending on the size of your wedding, it is quite common to select two. Consider choosing two hymns, or a hymn and a contemporary piece that has been approved by your celebrant. The hymn will always be sung first.

*Suggestions -x2 choices*

Somewhere Over The Rainbow
I Watch the Sunrise
The Clouds Veil
Down by the River to Pray
Fields of Gold
Kissing You – Desree
She Moved Through The Fair
Ave Maria

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SIGNING OF THE REGISTER

Again two pieces are required here. This part of the mass can have a joyous, chatty atmosphere and you and your partner will be preoccupied with signing the register so it might not be the best place to select your favourite songs just yet!

*Suggestions*

Signed, Sealed, Delivered -Stevie Wonder
Higher Love – James Vincent Mc Morrow
God Only Knows – The Beach Boys
Your Song – Elton John/ Ellie Goulding cover
All I Want – U2
Feels Like Home – Randy Newman
Let It Be – The Beatles
Lean on Me – Bill Withers
Bright Blue Rose – Mary Black

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RECESSIONAL

Expect lots of clapping, cheering and celebrations so consider picking an upbeat tune to match that electric atmosphere. You will also need to select a second song that will be sung as guests exit the church and offer their personal congratulations to you.

*Suggestions*

One Day Like This -Elbow
Home -Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros
Greatest Day – Take That
Everlasting Love – Jamie Cullum
You Are The Best Thing – Ray La Montagne
Lovely Day – Bill Withers
Here Comes the Sun – The Beatles
Higher & Higher – Jackie Wilson
This Will Be (an Everlasting Love) – Natalie Cole
Ho Hey -The Lumineers
For Once in my Life

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Unique, distinctive and truly personal, the beauty of civil and humanist ceremonies is that they offer a blank canvas.

The choice really is yours so instead of suggesting songs for each section, you’ll find below an overview of what happens at each part of the ceremony. From my repertoire of songs, you can choose the songs for the part of the ceremony that works for you.

 

PROCESSIONAL

*insert music*

 

OPENING WORDS

A welcome by the officiant to the couple, their family and friends.

 

LIGHTING OF THE INDIVIDUAL CANDLES

*insert music*

Lighting the candles doesn’t take long (usually less than a minute) so an instrumental can work very well here. As this section is quite short I can learn your favourite instrumental.

 

THE GIVING OF MARRIAGE

*An option of inserting music after the giving of marriage*

 

OPENING READING

To add to the atmosphere, as the opening reading is being read, there is the option to have a light instrumental playing in the background.

 

DEFINITION OF MARRIAGE

VOWS

*music optional after vows*

SECOND READING

Again, similar to the first reading, there is the option to have an instrumental playing in the background.

EXCHANGE OF RINGS

As you exchange your rings, some people opt for a nice reading while others prefer light music.

LIGHTING OF UNITY CANDLE

*insert music*

 

Congratulations, you are now a married couple. This part of the mass is filled with a joyous atmosphere so an upbeat piece is very appropriate here.

 

DECLARATION OF MARRIAGE

SIGNING OF THE REGISTER

*insert music*

This part of the mass can have a joyous, chatty atmosphere and a fun, upbeat song can work really well here. Remember though that you and your partner will be preoccupied with signing the register so it might not be the best place to select your favourite songs!

 

INTRODUCTION TO THE NEWLY MARRIED COUPLE

RECESSIONAL

*insert music*

Expect lots of clapping, cheering and celebrations so consider picking an upbeat tune to match that atmosphere. You will also need to select a second song that will be sung as guests exit the venue and offer their personal congratulations to you.

Party and prosecco, canapés and celebrations. Your drinks reception is a great part of the day to meet family and friends who have all come to toast you as a couple. The background music adds to this celebratory tone and this is one of my favourite parts of the day to perform.

Whether you fancy upbeat tunes or mellow ballads, I will be playing as soon as your guests arrive until they are called for dinner.

Jazz and more traditional classical tunes set a really elegant vibe whereas popular and rock songs build the atmosphere for the party that is to follow.

If I perform at both your ceremony and drinks reception it can help with your budget as I offer a special rate. And if you really like my sound, I can also provide music for the day after your wedding.